Simply put, discerning is about deciding which of two or more options is a better choice. When the object of the discernment is God's will it involves a attitude of listening in the context of prayer. This is a way to actively cooperate with God in co-creating a future full of meaning and promise. It is a way to take responsibility for the direction of your life by making appropriate choices. In prayer you
make your choices as you journey with God, confident that you will be cared for, that you will have what is needed to live whatever choice you do make.

Discernment involves making decisions after you have spent some time listening to God in prayer. It involves some simple steps. Here is a guide to help you.

		Clearly define the choices that lie before you.
		Make a list of the pros and cons of each choice.
		Take some quiet time and pray with this list.
		Name the motives that are drawing you to choose one choice over another.
		Check to see how these motives fit into your value system.
		Notice is you are experiencing peace with the choice you made.
		Share your experience with a trusted friend and ask for some input if you are not feeling peaceful or if you are unsure of your own assessments.
		Take some additional time to pray asking the Spirit for guidance.
		Remember, when the right decision comes, peace and joy can be signs that this choice is right for you.

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